This is the last post in a series of posts on meditation for beginners. The Introduction contains links to the entire series. I recommend you read the series in order if you want to start meditating.
Last week, you studied and practiced walking meditation. Jay at Porsidan continued to follow this tutorial and he posted last week’s experiences. Jay has made amazing progress in his meditation practice. He describes only one problem last week:
…I fell asleep again today…
You may fall asleep during meditation if you become too comfortable. To counteract this, you can pick a posture that’s less comfortable, meditate with your eyes open, or adjust the room temperature or your clothing to make yourself colder.
This week I finish this series by describing a few things you can do to improve or move beyond your new meditation skills.
Your Meditation Practice
From previous posts in this series, you already know the various types of meditation: focused, insight, loving-kindness, and walking. I recommend you combine the various types of mediation by meditating thirty minutes per day preferably in the morning. You can break down each thirty minute session like this:
- Focused meditation (2 minutes)
- Loving-kindness meditation (4 minutes)
- Insight meditation (20 minutes)
- Walking meditation (4 minutes)
This gives you a nice combination of all the meditation techniques. The walking meditation at the end doubles as meditation and as a way to reduce your stiffness from sitting meditation. Of course, you can meditate more or less, but the important thing is to do some meditation every day with the right level of concentration.
Concentration is a critical component of meditation. Focused meditation is designed to develop your concentration so other types of meditation are more beneficial. It’s important to keep practicing focused meditation until you can do it for at least fifteen minutes without losing count. My meditation teacher recently had me backtrack to do this and I practiced focused meditation exclusively for a week. It significantly improved my concentration.
You may be curious about my meditation practice. I generally meditate for thirty minutes in the morning and twenty minutes in the evening. I plan to work up to forty minutes in the morning. On Sunday morning, I participate in group meditation at the Soji Zen Center and meditate for about 1.5 hours.
Meditation Equipment
One of the convenient things about meditation is that it requires little special equipment. You can use a blankets and towels for sitting on the floor or a chair for sitting higher.
However, if you go to a meditation center, you will find equipment that’s useful if you sit on the floor. The following picture shows some of the specialized equipment:
The woman on the left is sitting on a white Zafu cushion which rests on top of a purple Zabuton. It raises her butt off the ground to make it more comfortable to sit in various cross-legged postures. Zafus can be filled with either Buckwheat Hulls or Kapok. Buckwheat Hulls feel like a beanbag so that you can shape the Zafu in various ways. They are easier to use for a beginner.
However, most meditation centers have Kapok filled Zafus. Kapok is a fibrous plant material that acts somewhat like cotton. Kapok Zafus must be broken in because they’re overstuffed and gradually compress with use. An advantage of Kapok Zafus over Buckwheat Zafus is that you can turn a Kapok Zafu on it’s side and use it like a meditation bench (described below).
If you decide to buy a Zafu and Zabuton, I recommend Samadhi Cushions. This is the brand we have at my Zen Center and we put the cushions through a lot of wear. They seem to hold up well. This is also where I bought my Kapok Zafu and Zabuton.
The woman on the right is sitting on a meditation bench. This is an easier posture for some Westerners with back difficulties or inflexibility. I have a meditation bench from MeditationBench.com. If you decide to buy one, I suggest the folding bench with rounded legs. You can also buy a Zabuton or use a folded blanket for your knees.
Group Meditation
If you’re interested, group meditation is a great way to experience harmony in a group. The meditation is special because of the group energy and dynamic. The people are generally kind and inspiring.
You can use the Independent Meditation Center Guide to try to find a meditation center near you. If that doesn’t work, I suggest you Google “meditation” or “buddhism” and the name or postal code of your city.
Find a Meditation Teacher
I don’t know much about higher levels of meditative states called Jhanas. But if you want to advance your meditation practice to achieve the higher Jhana states, you’re going to need a teacher. There are many ways to get “stuck” in meditation without realizing it. A good meditation teacher will help you become “unstuck” so you progress.
I’m a Zen Buddhist and so I have a Zen Sensei, Jules Shuzen Harris Sensei, as my teacher. My teacher is from the White Plum Lineage of Zen which is the largest Zen lineage in the United States.
Additional Reading
If you’re uninterested in a teacher, then reading books is the next best thing you can do. The best book I’ve found on meditation is the following:
The book title is misleading because the book focuses on meditation rather than just mindfulness.
If you would like to know more about Zen Buddhism, then I suggest the reading list at Village Zendo.
It’s important to me that you learn to meditate. Please leave a comment or send a confidential email (roger at acontentlife.com) with any questions, problems, or observations. I’m here to help.
Related posts:
- Meditation for Beginners (Week 5) – Walking Meditation
- Meditation for Beginners (Week 4) - Loving-Kindness Meditation
- Meditation for Beginners (Week 2) – Focused Meditation
- Meditation for Beginners (Week 3) – Insight Meditation
- Meditation for Beginners (Week 1) – Introduction
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Hi Roger,
Reading your post reminded me of the Buddhist saying that “when the student is ready, the teacher will appear”. So I am so happy that you have found your teacher. Yay!
My teacher found me and it was one of the best experiences ever. May everyone find their perfect teacher.
This has been a personally inspiring series of posts.
Reading them over these weeks has watered the seed of meditation that has been germinating in my mind for a long time. I do think that it is beginning to grow and will bloom into a regular practice!
@Nadia: Having a teacher makes a BIG difference! It has been a challenging and excellent experience so far.
@Sean: Well, stick some fertilizer on that seed and get started.
Seriously, I’m here to help if you have any questions I might be able to answer.
Hi Roger,
I just wanted to thank you again for helping me with this. Today is day 29 of my 30 day trial, and I have to say that it has been a resounding success…and I owe much of that to you and this tutorial. Thanks so much for doing this with me!
Jay,
It has honestly been a pleasure. Your questions and observations have been invaluable to me. I think as a team we created a better learning experience for all of our readers.
I hope you decide to continue with meditation. Thirty days is enough to get a small taste of the benefits. But there are many benefits yet to come if you continue.
I came across one of your posts on Meditation and ended up reading all :-0)
As a novice on Mediation I found the series very informative.
Thanks
Shamelle,
Welcome!
I’m impressed that you read all the posts in one go. I hope you decide to start your own meditation practice.
I found I could only be just so short on sleep. If I was too short on sleep, meditation was just impossible. Otherwise, methods like the ones you suggest worked well.
Paul,
Good point!
If you’re sleep deprived, it’s going to be difficult to meditate. Maybe the best you can do in that case is walking meditation. Of course, a better solution is to avoid sleep deprivation altogether.
Hi Roger!
I have really enjoyed your meditation series. I find meditation very challenging but so worth it. I have a very overactive mind, and I love how peaceful I feel when I find stillness. Just picked up that book on Mindfulness. Excited to read it!
Lori
Lori,
I’m glad you like the series!
I think meditation is one of the most useful things I’ve experienced. I hope you like the book - I found it extremely useful.
Hi Roger:
Thanks for all of the tips and for sharing your experience. I’ve spent a little time meditating, but I feel ready to take a class and learn more because it has been diffucult for me to have the discipline to do it on my own. Oh, by the way, I’m a huge fan of “Wherever You Go, There You Are” by Jon Kabat-Zinn and it has always been one of my favorite books. It has helped me overcome some anxiety and even my discomfort for flying.
Roger, I started following your mediation advice a few weeks ago and then I got caught up in vacation and other things and forgot all about it. I absolutely must get restarted and refocused (ha ha) on mediation.
@Tim: I think taking a class is an excellent idea! You’ll also meet some interesting people in the class. I’ve read “Wherever You Go, There You Are” and I agree it’s an excellent book. Jon Kabat-Zinn has created excellent stress and pain management programs that utilize meditation in various hospitals.
@Stephen: The great thing about meditation is that you can always begin again. I had to try several times at different stages of my life before it became a habit.
thank you!
i have an overactive mind and lately i’m focusing on meditation more, or the concept i should say
this will help! I like how you have it broken down into 4 categories. I think i can do this…
~Jen
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